{"id":1088,"date":"2026-01-21T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-01-21T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/?p=1088"},"modified":"2026-01-17T01:34:46","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T05:34:46","slug":"the-fantasy-of-always-and-never","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/posts\/the-fantasy-of-always-and-never\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fantasy of Always and Never"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of the patterns I picked up during my freelancing years was to gently probe any time a client made an absolute statement. &#8220;We always do X&#8221; or &#8220;Y never happens.&#8221; These were usually non-technical clients describing their business processes, and I needed to understand them well enough to build software around them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Honestly, I can&#8217;t remember a single one of those statements holding up to any scrutiny. Most fell apart with a single question. &#8220;What if Z happens?&#8221; &#8220;Oh, in that case, we do this other thing.&#8221; Almost none of them survived two or three follow-ups. It wasn&#8217;t that people were lying or even wrong, they just had a mental model of how things worked that was cleaner than reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This matters a lot when you&#8217;re building abstractions. When you create a shared component or a unified data model, you&#8217;re betting that these things really are the same. That they&#8217;ll change together. That the commonality you see today will hold tomorrow. Sandi Metz said &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/sandimetz.com\/blog\/2016\/1\/20\/the-wrong-abstraction\">Duplication is far cheaper than the wrong abstraction<\/a>.&#8221; I&#8217;d take it further, you need to be really certain an abstraction is right, or it&#8217;s probably wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abstractions and DRY are, in a sense, intentional single points of failure. That&#8217;s not to say they&#8217;re bad (I build them all the time), but it&#8217;s worth keeping in mind. You are hitching a lot to the same post.  If you try to abstract physical addresses to cover all addresses everywhere, you&#8217;re left with basically zero rules because they&#8217;re all broken somewhere. Same for names, medical histories, pretty much any taxonomy that involves humans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So now when I&#8217;m looking at a potential abstraction, I try to pressure-test it. &#8220;Users <em>always <\/em>have an email address&#8221; is fragile, there&#8217;s probably an exception lurking somewhere. &#8220;Users <em>usually <\/em>have an email address, and we handle it gracefully when they don&#8217;t&#8221; is something you can build on. If your abstraction can&#8217;t survive that kind of flex, it might not be an abstraction at all, just a few things that happen to look similar, until they don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the patterns I picked up during my freelancing years was to gently probe any time a client made an absolute statement. &#8220;We always do X&#8221; or &#8220;Y never happens.&#8221; These were usually non-technical clients describing their business processes, and I needed to understand them well enough to build software around them. Honestly, I&hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"simppeli-read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/posts\/the-fantasy-of-always-and-never\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The Fantasy of Always and Never<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,3],"tags":[418],"series":[],"class_list":["post-1088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advice","category-software","tag-ai-assist"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1AkJt-hy","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1088"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1090,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088\/revisions\/1090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1088"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1088"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1088"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/efsavage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=1088"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}